# Confidential Binder

## Confidential Binder
CRAVE STRATEGY DOSSIER
CONFIDENTIAL WORKING REFERENCE
Prepared: May 14, 2026 | Call scheduled: [DATE / TIME — add when booked] | For: Megan Kilpatrick | Private use only
SHOPIFY
Confirmed Platform Stack
4–6 WK
Phase 1 Fast Path Target
3
Build Paths to Present (Fast / Middle / Full)
10
Total Evidence Assets in Gallery
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RULES OF ENGAGEMENT — READ BEFORE THE CALL
Do **NOT** quote pricing numbers on the call. Do **NOT** bring up other ventures (FCDSE, STEAM Academy, CDBG, Big Cyster). Let Ti dictate the budget reality. The apology is already written and she released you from it — do not re-open it. Do **NOT** oversell. Do **NOT** fill silence. Do **NOT** commit to a timeline before you understand her stack. Listen first. Pitch second. Go in as a peer, not someone hoping to be picked.
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STATUS: TI HAS REPLIED — SHE'S IN
Ti's DM response (May 2026): **"Omg, I'm so sorry to hear about your family. No apologies needed, and absolutely love to reconnect. Let's move this to my email. Whats your email again?"** — Followed by: **"I so appreciate your message. Srsly AuDHD unite. Will email you soon!"** The pitch has landed. The call is the close. Your only job now is to listen, learn her constraints, and pick a path.
00B. Goals for the Call — Read First
| # | Goal | Note |
| --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | Reconnect warmly — the relationship is the foundation, not the project | Open with genuine check-in. She gave grace on the delay. Honour that. |
| 2 | Listen first — Ti's vision for the post-Amazon pivot drives the build | Your pitch is already done. The call is about her constraints, not your ideas. |
| 3 | Land on a direction (Fast / Middle / Full) before the call ends | The three paths table in Section 03 is your read-the-room tool. |
| 4 | Agree on Phase 1 scope and rough timeline | Don't commit to a date before you understand her stack and your own bandwidth. |
| 5 | Schedule a follow-up working session within 7 days | Momentum lives in the next concrete step — get it booked before the call ends. |
| 6 | Get a soft yes on hybrid pricing (reduced rate + product/credit) | Don't quote a number. Anchor to the concept — details in the 48-hr proposal. |
What Ti Already Knows About You
| She Knows | She Does NOT Know — Keep It Out |
| --- | --- |
| Photographer she trusts — "your photos are gorgeous" (her words) | Four Corners Digital Safety & Education (FCDSE) |
| Featured in Crave Culture (March 2026) — real creative collab history | STEAM Photography Academy or any EdTech work |
| Fellow AuDHD — she signed off "AuDHD unite" in last DM | CDBG grant pursuit |
| You dropped the ball on the gallery handoff (mom + custody) — she gave grace immediately | Big Cyster / any other ventures |
| Business: MWM Photography LLC | Anything that muddies the fashion/design pitch |
0. Relationship Timeline — How We Got Here
| Date | Event | Outcome / Status |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Jan 8, 2026 | Megan DMs @lovecrave — sends 4 photos of Vesper 2 in the wild. little_miss_ink also tags Crave. | Crave hearts it. Ti personally responds: "your photos are gorgeous" |
| Jan 8, 2026 | Megan asks about Lash Belt 2 (magnetic rose gold, big enough for her hips). Offers to send model releases. | Ti: "Genuinely out of stock. Will keep you top of mind. What's your email?" |
| Jan 8, 2026 | Megan gives email (megan@boudieful.com), mentions Bass Chains custom necklace for loop earplugs to match Crave stack. | Ti hearts it. Warm connection established. |
| Jan 11, 2026 | Megan sends 6 photos. Mentions story tag with Vesper 2 + cuffs. Invites @lovecrave as collaborator. | Ti sees the story tag. Story content: "Who needs the Vesper 2 and cuffs from @lovecrave… YOU DO" |
| Jan 18, 2026 | Megan DMs again: loving the site updates, asks about Lash Belt 2 again (magnetic rose gold, big hips). Offers model releases. | Ti replies: "your photos are gorgeous" — confirms Lash Belt out of stock, will review images, asks for email |
| Feb 12, 2026 | Ti DMs: "I would love to feature your work in our quarterly Crave Culture for March — full credit + link back to IG/website." Also: "great to meet another fellow AuDHD ;-) X, Ti" | Crave Culture March feature CONFIRMED. Relationship = mutual, warm, peer-level. |
| Feb 12, 2026 | Megan agrees enthusiastically. Promises to send photos tomorrow. Notes she forgot to email originally. | Ti: "Aww thanks lady! I appreciate you!" — This is where the ball got dropped (mom + custody). |
| May 2026 | Megan re-opens with app pitch DM. Apology for going silent. References Amazon lockout + Poland AI glitch. Pitches mobile app. | Ti: "No apologies needed, absolutely love to reconnect. Let's move to email. AuDHD unite. Will email you soon!" |
1. Who Is Ti Chang — Full Profile
**Ti Chang — Co-Founder & Designer, Crave (lovecrave.com)**<br>Co-founded with Michael. Women-led SF micro-factory. First sex tech brand to debut at CES (2020). Saint Laurent Valentine's Day collab (2020). Red Dot Design Award winner. Madonna is a confirmed Crave fan — Ti has referenced this publicly as a brand credibility marker. Philosophy: "Objects for life's most intimate moments should be beautiful." Brand voice: authentic, independent, design-obsessed. Tagline: "Onward and upward." She obsesses over craft. She will respond to quality and intentionality. **She already called your photos gorgeous and featured you in Crave Culture.** Match her energy — peer to peer.
2. Website Intelligence (lovecrave.com — Recon Complete)
Platform confirmed as **Shopify**. This is the single most important recon finding — Tapcart and other Shopify-native app builders are plug-and-play with zero re-platforming risk. The pitch writes itself.
| Finding | Detail | App Opportunity |
| --- | --- | --- |
| "MyVibes" page | Listed in site footer under Shop — no content visible, purpose unclear. Possibly a personalisation/quiz feature. | If it's a quiz/matching tool: native app is the obvious home. If dormant: worth asking Ti what it was meant to be. |
| Platform | Shopify (confirmed via checkout flow, cart behavior, CDN URLs) | Tapcart / Vajro / custom Shopify mobile app — zero re-platforming needed |
| "Shop Live!" nav item | Top-nav link exists but no live shopping infrastructure visible — dead link | This is waiting to be activated — app is the obvious home for it |
| "Become a CRAVE VIP" email | Email CTA on homepage — no push notification layer exists | App push notifications for drops get 40–60% open rates vs. ~20% email |
| CRAVE Culture page | Dedicated editorial/culture section already exists at /pages/culture | BTS content, editorial, community live naturally inside an app feed |
| 19 active SKUs | 3 collections: Pleasure Jewelry, Fine Bedside Products, Accessories | Clean catalog — easy to structure inside an app with zero bloat |
| Free shipping threshold | $125+ free US shipping — prominently displayed | In-app cart nudges ("$X away from free shipping") dramatically increase AOV |
| Pleasure Guarantee | 30-day returns, 1-yr warranty, 5-yr extended coverage | VIP loyalty / warranty tracking in-app — clearly differentiated from Amazon |
3. The Three Paths — Decision Framework
Present all three paths. Do **NOT** push one. Let her tell you which one her gut pulls toward. Her answer will reveal her runway, her urgency, and her ambition level — all at once.
| Signal / Variable | FAST PATH (Tapcart) 2–4 wks | MIDDLE PATH (PWA) 4–8 wks | FULL NATIVE 3–6 months |
| --- | --- | --- | --- |
| Timeline | 2–4 weeks | 4–8 weeks | 3–6 months |
| Budget feel | Lowest — SaaS subscription + setup | Mid — design + dev hours | Highest — real dev investment |
| Brand control | Templated, polished | High — fully custom UX | Total — every pixel yours |
| Live shopping | Tapcart Live module | Integrate Bambuser / similar | Build native streams |
| When she says… | "We need this fast." | "It needs to feel like CRAVE." | "This is a long-term investment." |
MEGAN'S RECOMMENDATION (share after she picks a direction)
Start Fast Path (Tapcart, 4–6 weeks) so the community has somewhere to land NOW. Then layer the bespoke Middle Path experience once you see how people use it. Phase 1: app live, community migrated, first live shopping event scheduled. Phase 2: custom UX layer, membership features, website refresh to match.
4. The Pitch — Why This Matters for Crave Specifically
THE CORE INSIGHT TO OPEN WITH
Crave already built the infrastructure for an app — they just don't have the app yet. There's a live shopping nav link going nowhere, a VIP email list with no push layer, a Culture editorial page with no mobile-native home, and a Shopify backend that connects to a mobile app in days, not months. The Amazon lockout didn't create the problem — it just made it visible.
| Crave Pain Point | Current State | App Fixes It By |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Amazon dependency / lockout risk | Third-party platform controls distribution | Owned channel — no algorithm, no auto-populate glitch, no delistings |
| "Shop Live!" link goes nowhere | Dead nav item on homepage | Live shopping stream lives natively in the app — drop events, real-time chat |
| VIP email as sole direct channel | Email open rates declining industry-wide (~20%) | Push notifications for drops get 40–60% open rates by comparison |
| Culture content buried on website | /pages/culture exists but has no mobile-first experience | BTS, editorial, community content feeds — Instagram-style, owned by Crave |
| No loyalty / repeat purchase layer | Pleasure Guarantee exists but no VIP tracking in-app | Membership tier, warranty tracking, early access to drops — community moat |
5. Questions to Ask Her (In Order)
**Rule:** Ask, then shut up. Take notes. Don't fill silence with your pitch. Pauses = decisions forming.
| Category | Question | Why You're Asking |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Discovery | "Tell me what the last few weeks have been like since the Amazon shutdown — what's the actual day-to-day impact on sales?" | Quantifies the pain. Tells you how urgent the fix feels to her. |
| Discovery | "When you imagine the pivot working — six months from now — what does that look like? Walk me through a customer's experience." | Reveals vision. Tells you if she's thinking app, community, or something else entirely. |
| Discovery | "What does 'live shopping' look like in your head? IG Live, scheduled in-app streams, something else?" | Scopes the live shopping feature before you build assumptions. |
| Discovery | "What's the one thing your most loyal customers keep asking for that you can't easily give them today?" | Gold. This answer becomes your Phase 1 feature priority. |
| Technical | "Who handles the site now — you, Michael, an agency, a freelancer?" | Identifies who you're actually building alongside or around. |
| Technical | "What tools are you already paying for that we should integrate instead of replace? (Klaviyo, ShopBase, etc.)" | Prevents you from proposing something that duplicates or breaks existing stack. |
| Technical | "Do you have an email list? Size, engagement, current platform?" | App soft-launch plan depends on this. VIP email list is the launch audience. |
| Constraints | "What's your realistic budget runway for this? Don't have to give me a number — give me a feel." | Determines which path to lead with in the proposal. |
| Constraints | "Is there a launch moment driving this — a holiday, drop, event?" | A hard deadline changes everything about the build approach. |
| Constraints | "Any brand non-negotiables I should know going in?" | Respect her aesthetic before you design a single screen. |
| Closing | "Of the three paths, which one is your gut pulling toward?" | The close. Her answer locks the proposal direction. |
| Constraints | "Is this primarily you and Michael, or is there a team I'd be collaborating with?" | Determines who signs off, who has opinions, and whose aesthetic you need to satisfy. |
| Closing | "What's the next concrete step that would feel useful for you?" | Keeps momentum in her hands — you're not pushing, you're following her lead. |
6. Pricing Posture
**Flexible ≠ free.** Floor rule: don't undercut yourself to the point you'd resent the project. If it feels too tight: <em>"Let me put together a real scope before we lock in numbers — I want to give you something honest, not a back-of-napkin guess."</em>
IF PRICING COMES UP — USE THIS
"I want to make this work for both of us — reduced rate plus some product/credit component that makes sense for where you are. I'll send a real number once we land on direction and scope. I don't want to give you a back-of-napkin guess I'll regret." [PAUSE. Let her respond.] If she pushes: "Give me 48 hours after this call and I'll have something concrete in your inbox."
LASH BELT 2 — IF SHE BRINGS IT UP
She already knows you want one — you asked twice (Jan 8 and Jan 18). Keep it light and cheeky. "I absolutely wrote it into the contract." Do NOT bring it up first. If she mentions it: lean in playfully. This is charm, not a negotiating point.
7. Email Scripts — Send Order Matters
Since Ti has already replied via DM and asked you to move to email, the gallery handoff + pitch are now one seamless sequence. Wait at least **60 minutes** between Email 1 and Email 2 — too close together and she reads both as one message, which kills the separate-thread effect.
EMAIL 1: Gallery Handoff — Send First (Standalone Thread)
Ti — here are the Crave Culture images and releases, finally in your hands where they belong. I set up a private portal so you can review, select favorites, and download hi-res. [LINK] I have a separate note coming your way in a few minutes. X, Megan
EMAIL 2: App Pitch — New Thread, +60 Minutes Later
Ti — okay, the real reason I'm sliding back in. I've spent some time with lovecrave.com since seeing the Amazon situation unfold, and I think there's something genuinely interesting here: you've already built most of the infrastructure for a mobile app. Shopify backend, a Culture editorial page, a live shopping nav link that's just waiting to be activated. I'd love to build Crave a direct-to-community app. Owned channel. Push notifications for drops. Live shopping. BTS content. No platform, no AI overlord, no auto-populate glitch can ever touch it. Three paths depending on runway — fast (4–6 weeks, Shopify-native), middle (fully custom PWA), or full native. Can we get 30 minutes to see what fits? No pitch deck, no pressure — just two AuDHD brains thinking it through. X, Megan
EMAIL 3: Post-Call Recap — Send Within 4 Hours of Call
Ti — thank you for the time today. Here's what I heard: [FILL IN direction she leaned toward, constraints she mentioned, timeline she has in mind]. Based on that, I'm going to scope [FAST / MIDDLE / FULL] and have a real proposal in your inbox within 48 hours. Next step on your end: just let me know if anything shifts. I'll have something concrete for you by [DATE]. X, Megan
8. Pre-Call Checklist
| Status | Task |
| --- | --- |
| DONE | Confirmed platform: Shopify (via CDN, checkout, cart behavior) |
| DONE | Audited homepage: dead "Shop Live!" link, VIP email form, Culture page |
| DONE | Catalogued 19 SKUs across 3 collections — clean app structure confirmed |
| DONE | Researched Ti Chang: co-founder, Red Dot Award, CES debut, Saint Laurent collab |
| DONE | Concept deck v2 built (9 slides, Berry & Cream palette, all feedback applied) |
| DONE | Ti replied — warm, gracious, moved to email. Pitch has landed. |
| TODO | Stage gallery portal link before sending Email 1 — recommended: Pic-Time or Pixieset (both support private client galleries, hi-res download, and clean branding that matches Crave's aesthetic — not Google Drive) |
| TODO | Review Tapcart and Vajro Shopify app pricing tiers — know the numbers in case she asks |
| TODO | Prepare 2–3 reference apps in luxury/pleasure space for visual reference on call |
| TODO | Gut check: bandwidth is real — CDBG follow-up, Tolan OCR, Loop deck, Jimmy's 4x4. Be honest about start date. |
9. Gut Check — 5 Minutes Before the Call
1. Am I leading with curiosity about <em>her</em>, or excitement about my own ideas?
Should be curiosity. Every time.
2. Do I actually have bandwidth to start in 2 weeks, given CDBG, Tolan, Loop, Jimmy's 4x4?
Be honest. If no — push the start date on the call. Better to say it now than miss a deadline.
3. Am I going into this as a peer, or as someone hoping to be picked?
Peer. Always peer. She already called your photos gorgeous and featured you in Crave Culture. You earned this seat.
Onward and upward.
CRAVE / OWN YOUR PLEASURE®
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Red Dot Design
SF Micro-Factory
First Sex Tech (2020)
Saint Laurent, 2020
Fan — confirmed
NEW IN 2025 — KNOW THESE BEFORE THE CALL
**Tease Necklace** — just launched, "The New Icon of Pleasure." **Vesper Mini** — miniature Vesper, now live. **Black &amp; 24kt Gold Cuffs** — new colorway, just dropped. **CRAVE Foundation for Women** — grants to Mariama Diallo &amp; Djessou Kouyate (FGM/C eradication). "Pleasure Maps" astrology content series live on Culture page. "Agents of Pleasure" community ambassador programme active.
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SHOW THIS ON THE CALL — TAP THROUGH THE SCREENS
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Home — Drop alerts, push notifications, instant shop
Shop — Shopify catalog, zero replatforming
Live — The dead "Shop Live!" nav link, finally activated
Culture — Editorial, Pleasure Maps, BTS — mobile-native home
VIP — "Agent of Pleasure" programme, owned loyalty layer
Why You're Asking
10. After the Call — Same Day
11B. 48-Hour Proposal Scaffold
48-HOUR PROPOSAL SCAFFOLD — FILL IN AFTER THE CALL
**Subject:** CRAVE App — Phase 1 Scope &amp; Proposal<br><br>**1. What I heard:** [direction she leaned toward] / [constraints she named] / [timeline she has in mind] / [team structure]<br><br>**2. Recommended path:** [FAST / MIDDLE / FULL] — because [her specific reason]<br><br>**3. Phase 1 scope:** [3–5 bullet deliverables, no more] / Timeline: [X weeks from signed agreement] / Start date: [realistic based on your bandwidth]<br><br>**4. Investment:** [Reduced project rate — $X] + [product/credit component — to be shaped together]. Hybrid structure because the relationship matters more than the invoice.<br><br>**5. Next step:** Reply with any questions by [DATE]. If it looks right, I'll send a simple agreement and we move.<br><br>X, Megan
| Timing | Action |
| --- | --- |
| Within 4 hours | Send recap email (Email 3 template above) — what we discussed, what direction, next step + date |
| That night | If direction landed: start scoped proposal while the conversation is fresh |
| That night | If direction didn't land: send 2–3 specific options, ask her to pick one |
| That night | Block actual project time in calendar — protect it from the other 6 ventures |
| Within 48 hours | Deliver scoped proposal: Phase 1 scope, timeline, pricing — all in writing |
| Within 7 days | Follow-up working session scheduled. Momentum maintained. |
11. Evidence Inventory — Crave Culture Gallery
| Exhibit | Photo | Strategic Value | Shoot |
| --- | --- | --- | --- |
| A: Vesper portrait (forward-facing) | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/4qihtcqr-1778727783434-dsc01244.jpeg) | Shows the Vesper worn as jewelry — aligns with Ti's core "pleasure jewelry" thesis | Original Crave Culture shoot |
| B: Welding portrait | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/e8j6ctzo-1778727783428-dsc01147.jpeg) | Industrial + sensual contrast — exactly the "CRAVE Culture" editorial tone | Original Crave Culture shoot |
| C: Back tattoo detail | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/e38ysspp-1778727783389-dsc01380.jpeg) | Body-as-canvas aesthetic — fits Crave's "come as you are" brand voice | Original Crave Culture shoot |
| D: Unboxing flatlay (Vesper 2 + Icon Cuffs) | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/6yafslms-1778728224914-d41620be-5501-47c5-9831-dd43037c37a0.jpeg) | Shows full product ecosystem — box, cuffs, Vesper 2, chain. App commerce visual. | New shoot (Jan 2026) |
| E: Vesper 2 worn close-up with Icon Cuff | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/rfecu7yn-1778728224926-dsc03927.jpeg) | Shows current product line (Vesper 2 + ID Cuffs) in wear — great for app product pages | New shoot (Jan 2026) |
| F: Winter outdoor — holding box (looking down) | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/u8snl6tu-1778728225086-dsc03923.jpeg) | Aspirational lifestyle — editorial-quality image, perfect for Culture feed in app | New shoot (Jan 2026) |
| G: Winter outdoor — confident pose (looking away) | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/xcjqdzfr-1778728224921-dsc03912.jpeg) | Power pose with box + Vesper worn — hero image candidate for app onboarding screen | New shoot (Jan 2026) |
| H: Box lid — CRAVE / PLEASURE JEWELRY™ | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/hwfo1f56-1778731016053-img-8085.jpeg) | The brand's actual packaging language — matte black, rose gold foil, geometric logo. This IS the visual brief for the app. | Product flatlay (2026) |
| I: Open box — Vesper 2 + ICON Cuffs in velvet | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/15bhny17-1778731016031-img-8089.jpeg) | Black velvet interior, rose gold hardware — this is the unboxing moment the app VIP experience should replicate digitally | Product flatlay (2026) |
| J: Full product spread — box, cuffs, Vesper 2, chain, booklet | ![item](https://d6yvfl55smr7u.cloudfront.net/assets/fds143r9-1778731016023-img-8094.jpeg) | Complete product ecosystem flatlay. Shows "Fancy as fuck." card (lowercase, period — that's the actual card) — confirms brand voice is as irreverent as the design. Perfect app shop hero image. | Product flatlay (2026) |